Currently, I’m in Isle of Palms, SC on a business trip with my husband. Everywhere I go now, I view each city from a “retirement perspective.” It’s off season here and some of the restaurants at the resort are closed and last night, the last thing I wanted to do was get in the car and drive somewhere for dinner. I wanted to walk. And it’s a beautiful area to walk, but there’s not a lot of destinations to walk to – that’s the problem. So, we drove to dinner, wishing we could walk.
Retirement seems to crop up in every conversation, too. Is it me that’s leading it in that direction? Not always. But I am curious to know what others are thinking regarding their retirement location, their location criteria and the retirement activities they’re contemplating. I’ve said this before that it’s so important to have retirement discussions with your spouse. (See my Feb. 18 post, "Retirement Location: Your Criteria.") In the course of talking about what you want to do and where you want to live, you develop the criteria, but you also change it over time. It evolves. And it evolves even further when you go to the city and live it for a few weeks.
My husband and I didn’t know that we were looking for an urban lifestyle when we first considered Fort Collins, CO. Yes, we knew we wanted to walk to coffee shops and restaurants, in addition to walking trails. But, we didn’t realize what that meant. Initially, we had looked at an area of town that was more suburban than urban, about 2-2.5 miles from downtown (in this case, “Old Town”), but near a beautiful park and trail system. The houses were a little newer, a little bigger and a little cheaper, too. In our metro Atlanta neighborhood, we walk 2 miles one-way to the coffee shop. Two miles was doable or so we thought. In living it in Fort Collins, however, two miles was just too far. We considered a mile and a half, but decided that, too, was just too far, especially as we age. So, now in looking at homes in Fort Collins, which we’re doing, we’re only considering homes in a one mile radius from town. That little one month stay in Fort Collins is really paying off. When I first arrived in FC, I looked at real estate in a 2-2.5 mile radius and that changed over time. I like to say my thinking evolved during my stay and it really did, simply because I was living retirement. I was walking it and when my husband joined me during the last week, I made him walk it.
The other thing that happened is that we prioritized our criteria list. For us, now, living in a one-mile radius of town is more important than a newer, bigger and cheaper house. And, honestly, we might not have come to that realization without actually living in Fort Collins for that period.
So, if you can, you need to go to your retirement city and live retirement for 2, 3, or 4 weeks. It’s time and money well spent. That’s after you’ve had retirement discussions, of course, and have a good idea of where you want to live.
View all of my posts on the subject of “retirement criteria” by going to the bottom of this post and clicking on Labels: retirement criteria.

